“My people, hear my instruction;
listen to the words from my mouth. I will declare wise sayings;
I will speak mysteries from the past— things we have heard and known
and that our fathers have passed down to us.
We will not hide them from their children,
but will tell a future generation
the praiseworthy acts of the Lord,
his might, and the wondrous works
he has performed.” Psalm 78:1-4
Thirty five years ago my life took a dramatic turn.
I married a man who loved the Lord and who had committed his life to serving Him in full-time in ministry. Just days after we married, we left our home state of Illinois and moved to our first home, sight-unseen, to an apartment within walking distance of the seminary. Low paying jobs and full-time schooling meant that our time in Texas was difficult, but sweet.
And it was in those early years that God laid the foundation for our future.
I believe the things that God taught us in those early years are a big part of who we are today. While it is true that we can learn from the experiences of others, it is also true that we tend to learn best when faced with our own choices and then live with the consequences.
EVEN SO, I would still like to offer these for consideration to those who might not be required to learn them except by osmosis:
- Hard work and sacrifice are highly underrated. To those who have been fed with a silver spoon, I urge you to try it. The satisfaction that comes from a hard day’s work far outweighs empty accolades based on who you are, your position at work, or who you might happen to know. Sacrifice is almost a negative word in our society, but the principle of sacrifice is a biblical mandate. [see Romans 12:1] When we serve others, we become the hands and feet of Jesus. You make think His plans for you are glamorous, but the truth is, you are never more like Him than when you are serving others in love.
- Going without isn’t the worst thing that could happen to you. Some of our poorest years were the ones that hold the most endearing memories. Counting pennies and sharing an ice cream sundae taught us to be creative with our budget. It is amazing how much you can do without when necessary. We never went without a meal, though sometimes lunch for my penny-pinching husband consisted of pecans collected from the grounds of the seminary! It wasn’t like he couldn’t just take a PB&J, but because they were free, it was like manna from heaven. If you have never had to go without, I highly recommend traveling to a third-world country and experience first-hand what real poverty looks like. Perspective is everything.
- Faith matters. I know. You expected that one to be in there, and you are probably wondering why it wasn’t #1 on the list. It’s because I knew that some of you wouldn’t read the list if you thought this was all it was about. Because it is. So I saved the best for last. The very reason we can look back with fondness on those years that were, by the world’s standards, difficult, is because we began our journey in faith. Faith in our God who’s promises gave us a foundation to build on. If our marriage, our ministry or our family had been built on anything less, the result would have been far different. It’s because of our faith that we can learn to be content in any circumstance and trust that God is working out His plan for us. Even when it’s hard or we don’t understand.
Life has a funny way of teaching us things that we could never learn in a book. Just be careful that you don’t skim over the pages of your life by choosing lethargy or discontentment. Every day is a gift, and because our Creator God has given you the gift of this day–don’t waste it.
Don’t waste the struggle, the pain or the problem.
Learn from it. Look for the good in it. Use it to minister to others. Let it mold you into the person God wants you to be.
“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your graciousness be known to everyone. The Lord is near. Don’t worry about anything, but in everything, through prayer and petition with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.
Finally brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable—if there is any moral excellence and if there is anything praiseworthy—dwell on these things. Do what you have learned and received and heard from me, and seen in me, and the God of peace will be with you.” Philippians 4:4-9
Categories: Faith, Inspiration, Marriage and Family
Such very true words! It was in the hard times my husband came to know Jesus as Lord and Savior. Our hard times are where we experience so much growth. Though they are hard they are worth every second if it brings us into a deeper relationship with Jesus.
Truer words never spoken, as the 60th year of our marriage was just last week, and many memories flooded my mind. Funny how good memories overshadow those that weren’t quite so pleasant in years past, all because of God and His goodness to us!
Yes, I’m learning that everything that we go through, can be used for his glory. I have found the past few years to be difficult in many ways, but yet sweet because I am learning so much from those things I go through. Thanks for sharing!
Amen! So true, the lessons learned should be be used for God’s glory.
This is precious. God definitely shapes us during times when we need to have faith and a little bit more creativity. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for your sweet words! ❤️
Excellent for all of us. Thank you Vickie & pastor Doug!
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Great words form my sweet wife and well worth the read!